One week ago today, the head oncologist told my wife I had maybe two weeks to live. Since then, some predictions are coming in at “a few months.” And you always hear about someone’s Uncle Charlie who was entered into hospice 23 years ago and is still going strong.
For those just getting this news, it turns out the flu and pneumonia are not my problems. Cancer is my problem, and it’s spreading faster than before. So here’s hoping I can pull an Uncle Charlie.
It’s amazing how freeing being given a limited time frame can be. Everything on my “things to do today lists” is vanquished forever. I completely stopped worrying about the items in my written lists and the lists that exist in the cracks in the back of my mind. Those last ones pop out at unexpected moments to tell me I still haven’t lived up to promises I made to others and to myself. (Thank God I never saddled myself with a bucket list.) Those lists are guilt-magnets. And now, poof… Gone forever. Good riddance.*
Now, with nothing I have to do, I’m looking forward to doing some things I want to do. Tomorrow is going to be great.
*There is one list I can’t help feeling guilty about abandoning. When I was a senior English major in 1970, the world was going a little crazy. Protests, students taking over University, riots, Kent State, etc. Of course (of course!) we couldn’t take tests in that environment. So a skeptical but graceful professor in my “Modern British Novel” course, made us pledge that we read five specific novels. I took the pledge and immediately lost the reading list. I’ve been meaning for the past 43 years to see if I could find it to finish my assignment. I’m not sure, but I’m betting that’s not going to happen now.
Mike,
There is a group of people here at the Agency working tonight for a presentation tomorrow and we are all thinking of you. We love you and are sending prayers for your and your family. And we can hear you saying – “Now get back to work” so we are doing that, but still thinking of you.
Much Love,
Karen Baber
Mike–someone once told me that the only real ‘to do’ items are to be a good person and to leave the world a better place than you found it. You’ve done these two things in spades. Now you can have all your Uncle Charlie days to enjoy!
God Mike, that was hard to read, but the the brilliance of your spirit shines through (and I don’t even really believe in that crap). Hopefully you’re not wasting your time reading this drivel, but in case you are, I just want to say “thank you”.
I worked for you for a very short time but what I learned in those years has guided me for the last decade and will into the future. We learned from you that you didn’t have be a dick to do great work. I learned that you can lead with compassion and integrity even through decisions that you would rather not be making.
I spent a very short time at Martin but I have the most amazing group of friends from that time. They are truly wonderful people who, though we have been separated by half a world and too much time, I know they would (and have) been there for me when I have needed them – and I only had the chance to meet them because they were attracted to work and live in the world that you created. Great people who were attracted to your great flame.
So, from one of the random thousands that had the privilege to ride in your wake for a while, thank you – and I mean that in the deepest possible way. One gets so few chances to meet really great people in one’s life and having the privilege to have met and worked with you is something that no one can take from me.
Travel well and know that your influence has, quite literally spread around the world.
Give them hell,
Mark Braddock
God Mike, that was hard to read, but the the brilliance of your spirit shines through (and I don’t even really believe in that crap). Hopefully you’re not wasting your time reading this drivel, but in case you are, I just want to say “thank you”.
I worked for you for a very short time but what I learned in those years has guided me for the last decade and will into the future. We learned from you that you didn’t have be a dick to do great work. I learned that you can lead with compassion and integrity even through decisions that you would rather not be making.
I spent a very short time at Martin but I have the most amazing group of friends from that time. They are truly wonderful people who, though we have been separated by half a world and too much time, I know they would (and have) been there for me when I have needed them – and I only had the chance to meet them because they were attracted to work and live in the world that you created. Great people who were attracted to your great flame.
So, from one of the random thousands that had the privilege to ride in your wake for a while, thank you – and I mean that in the deepest possible way. One gets so few chances to meet really great people in one’s life and having the privilege to have met and worked with you is something that no one can take from me.
Travel well and know that your influence has, quite literally spread around the world.
Give them hell,
Mark Braddock
I am remembering your brilliant and inspiring presence at the Images & Voices of Hope Summit a few years ago when you read your commencement address from VCA and lifted the whole room. You have left your inspiring mark everywhere you’ve been — including on Jason and his lovely wife and the irresistible Ella. I hope I have the grace you do when told just where the outside boundary of my life is. Judy Rodgers
I wish I was as good with words are others, but alas, I’m not. I send many positive thoughts your way, and to Ginny as well. Love, Susie
Mike – I worked for TMA from 1999 – 2006 as an Account person on UPS predominantly. Although I’ve been gone from the agency for 6 years, I vividly remember the way you ran the creative part of the shop. You were humble, kind, and always full of gratitude in every interaction. You were one of the most inspiring people leaders I’ve come across, and it was something I took with me on my career journey. You are a true inspiration, and you have left a lasting impact on me, for sure. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
- Sharon Dion
My dear cousin, Mike. It is no secret that you are my rock and my mentor and have been since I started at The Stenrich Group in 1991. Through so many years, you showed me what strength and courage were all about. I have no doubt it is why I was able to carry on and hold my head up high at Martin as I lost so many family members over the years. But you reached out to me, never failed to give me a great big hug (no matter who else was around which made it that much more fun) and you even took time to write a special loving note to my sweet mom on her 90th birthday. I especially appreciate the glowing remarks you made about me to a mother who adored you until she passed just this September.
You will forever hold a special place in my heart as my mentor, my boss and also my friend. I don’t know many people who can say, “I hugged my president today and it was awesome!!” But I can say it and know what it meant on good days and bad. Including many times when I was in studio and worked through the night but somehow, out of nowhere, in the middle of the night you appeared to thank us for our hard work. And once I was so tired from working until dawn that as I was going to the kitchen, I walked into a wall and actually said, “Excuse me” to the wall!!! Worst part was, 3 people were behind me laughing hysterically at what a “stooge” I was. But you were my inspiration each day to be more…to do more…to be better…to strive to make you proud. Now that I am retired, I still want to make you proud. It is a goal I work toward every day. You are my bright star. Shining to give me the twinkle in my eye as I take one positive step forward while leaving something not so good one step behind me.
Thank you for making me a part of your heart too. For I know you allowed me to enter a little piece of it. Kiss Ginny for me and thank her for loving the man I adore! Blessings…and always…love. Thumbs up.
Hey Mike. To say this is disappointing news is quite an understatement. But, as always, I love your perspective on it. It frames up for me that many things that I lay awake at night worrying about are really not as important as I once believed. Joe and team made a website a while back and in it I complimented you on how you always stood behind the work but never in front of it. Always helping, never hindering. Growing and prospering instead of condemning and shrinking. I live by those words now. It is how I get from day to day and remain confident that I’m doing it right. So, once again, thank you from the bottom of my heart. Here’s hoping for an Uncle Charlie indeed.
Mikie, all I can say is that I have always loved you, and always will.
Hey Mike,
During my time at Martin, I felt so fortunate to be a part of your family and the agency. I always loved seeing what would happen at our atrium meetings and where your head was at.
Your leadership and spirit are still with me today, and I always tell people that working at Martin didn’t just make me a better professional, but made me a better person as well.
Thank you for giving me the opportunity to be a part of something special and to learn from you. You truly are one of a kind and I am praying for you and your family.
All beings are free. Fear is an illusion. Truth can never be destroyed.
You did it right Mike. Smile.
Mike,
I agree, regrets suck. My only regret is that I never worked for you when I had the chance way back.
Doug
Mike, I wanted to post this here for you. You’ve been something incredibly unique and special to me. When you come out of this on the other side with that optimism, I’m buying you an iced coffee. love to you and the family.
Tonight, my thoughts are with Mike Hughes. Mike is, in fact, the man that enticed me to move to Richmond. He has built a community of love and kindness around those that work with and learn from him. Beyond that, Mike is that 6 foot something giant, whose heart bursts bigger than his stature and his sensitivity reaches so deeply into anyone he meets that it is staggering. Mike said to me over coffee once that he felt that Richmond was growing because young (gay) men like me can create and call this place home. While I believe that is true about Richmond, it is men like Mike that make you feel like that home is sweeter, kinder, bigger, and more important than yourself.
Many of my friends here have been touched by him. Give your heart up for Mike Hughes as he and his family take on this challenge.
I adore and love you Mike Hughes. You continue to change me and everyone around you.
I am humbled by your positivity and give it right back to you.
I think you’re about to pull another Uncle Charlie.
Mike, I wanted to post this here from my facebook. You have been something incredibly unique and special to me. When you come out of this with that optimism I would like to buy you an iced coffee…
Tonight, my thoughts are with Mike Hughes. Mike is, in fact, the man that enticed me to move to Richmond. He has built a community of love and kindness around those that work with and learn from him. Beyond that, Mike is that 6 foot something giant, whose heart bursts bigger than his stature and his sensitivity reaches so deeply into anyone he meets that it is staggering. Mike said to me over coffee once that he felt that Richmond was growing because young (gay) men like me can create and call this place home. While I believe that is true about Richmond, it is men like Mike that make you feel like that home is sweeter, kinder, bigger, and more important than yourself.
Many of my friends here have been touched by him. Give your heart up for Mike Hughes as he and his family take on this challenge.
I adore and love you Mike Hughes. You continue to change me and everyone around you.
I am humbled by your positivity and give it right back to you.
I think you’re about to pull another Uncle Charlie.
Mike, we are here cheering on an Uncle Charlie for you while holding you and your family in our hearts and prayers. You are the very definition of all that is good and right in this business. Talent, compassion, integrity and above all humor. We stand with you dear and like you, count each day a blessing. Tomorrow should indeed be GREAT.
Mike,
You inspire. It means a lot.
-Scott
Martin Agency 2000-2009
Mike – I worked at Martin 11+ years ago. Right around when the Gecko came about. The energy was amazing, the excitement was contagious and folks new there was something big that could happen. That is created by great leadership and passion. You have both, I remember walking in the halls and whenever you walked by, you were happy. A leader that truly has fun – I thought, what a great thing. Thanks for making my early career great and inspiring me to have a smile and have fun…inspiring.
Amy
Mike, you have always been the strongest man that I know in the ad business. Whether it’s been your crazy, long fight against lung cancer or the hours of work on the job, no one else really comes close. As I mentioned years ago, you’ve always been a “father figure” for me. Not that you’ve ever been old enough to hold this place, rather it’s been your caring and steady, patient manner. I could come to you with a nutty campaign idea or thoughts on a new kind of advertising school and know that my ideas wouldn’t be rejected out of hand. Generally, the opposite was true. You’ve listened and if there was a glimmer of good, you’d find a way to build on it – supporting rather than tearing down.
If anyone can pull off an Uncle Charlie, I’m betting on you.
Actually, there is something I’d like to see on a To Do list for you. How do we help you and your family? You’re not very skilled in accepting or asking for help but even old dogs can learn a new trick or two.
So… how do we best support you, Ginny, Jason, Patty, and all the others near and dear to you?
In the meantime please know that you’re on my church’s prayer list. (We’re working on an “Uncle Charlie”). You’re all also in my daily thoughts and prayers. Much love and good energy,
Diane
PS. Have fun.
I’ve worried a little over my PS. to you. I mean it with all good hopes for those little things that mean so much… watching snow fall, holding Ginny’s hand while watching a TV show, listening to the sound of your granddaughter’s voice. I simply wish you all happiness today and every day.
Mike, we only met once my friend and although I never had the immense good fortune to work for you, I feel in so many ways that your life and career have been an inspiration to me as they have been for so many others. I am blessed to count myself among them. Uncle Charlie’s rule.
Mike, I have one regret to share with you. I lived in Richmond for 31 years but, sadly I never met you. I’ve always been a great fan of your agency and your work. And, I wish you many more good days on Planet Earth!
The mark you have left on the lives you’ve encountered is evidence of a “to do list” victory. I am one such life. Yes your influence on my perspective in this industry has been huge but my most vivid memory of you is connected to likely one of the most painful times of your life – when you and Ginny lost your son. I was at the memorial service and listened as your letter describe how you fell in love with this little boy even before you fell in love with Ginny. And then all the wonderful things you learned from being his father. Tears flowed down my face as I listened and thought of my two young boys and my heart could somewhat relate to Ginny’s experience as a single mom and how I longed for that same connection for my boys.
When I got back to the agency I sent you an email to let you know how much your letter had touched me and how yes you were blessed by Ginny and her son but to make sure to never forget how much they were in turn blessed by you. I ended my email by telling you that I hoped someday God might bless my boys and me with a Mike of our own.
I was so shocked the next morning to see that you had replied to my email with thoughtful encouragement and grace. In the midst of your grief you reached out to encourage a lonely single mom who had already been inspired by you and Ginny’s story. But that’s just who you are….and why the people who’ve had the privilege to know you have left all the better for the experience.
Thank you for being you. Thank you for taking the time those many years ago to encourage this single mom to not lose hope. Your words of encouragement that day did indeed come true. A couple years ago God blessed me with a “Mike” of my own and I thought back to your email and smiled.
To use my mother’s term, “I’m working the Lord over on your behalf.”
Dear Mike (aka The Great and Powerful Oz):
When I arrived at the Martin Agency as a young AE, I will never forgot my first meetings with you. To borrow a metaphor from the Wizard of Oz, I had in my head that you were the GREAT and POWERFUL Oz. Your stellar reputation, larger than life stature, and of course, your creative prowess marked with a zillion awards, had me awe-struck. As I went into my first meeting with you, I felt like one of the munchkins bashfully requesting an audience with you as my inner voice kept repeating in my head: “Do not arouse the wrath of the great and powerful Oz.”
Well, come to find out, much like Oz, you were just a regular guy. And I say that as one of the highest and most sincerest of compliments.
A regular (brilliant) guy who cared as passionately (if not more) about his people as he did the work.
A regular (humble) guy who could have easily stolen the show from colleagues in presentations, but ensured instead that each team member had their moment to shine.
A regular (understanding) guy who was always approachable, always willing to stop and listen, always willing to show gratitude and appreciation, always willing to mentor.
A regular (sensitive) guy who believed in killing folks with kindness — quite rare in in industry know often for arrogance and take-no-prisoners attitudes.
A regular (credible) guy who made clients and leading companies abandon Madison Avenue and put their faith and trust in an agency in Richmond, Virginia –an agency with a unique understanding of how to connect, engage and endear brands to regular folks.
A regular (gentle, father-figure type) guy who showed compassion to a mortified Account Supervisor who threw up on him in the company plane on the way back from a pitch. You even offered to drive said AE home to ensure all was ok. We can laugh about this now, right?
A regular (lovable) guy who has a cult following of folks like me who treasure the years they spent learning from you and growing under you and who would move mountains for you.
As Oz told the Scarecrow: “A heart is not judged by how much you love; but by how much you are loved by others.”
Mike, you are loved by legions of folks around the world. You have a veritable LOVE train circling the globe of folks who are praying for you and your family.
And you know what they say about the power of love: LOVE conquers all.
So keep loving and keep fighting Mike! With much love, Andrea Amore
You are very loved, Uncle Charlie. Like Mark said, Give them hell.
Mike & Ginny,
Since I’m a better tech guy than a writer, I’ll keep this brief. I’ve adored you and Ginny for years and you (and the Agency) have had an absolutely profound effect on my life. As someone else said above, I’m not only a much better professional, but a better person.
Please know that Olivia and I are thinking about you both every day. Please let me know if there is anything AT ALL that we can do for you and your family.
Mike, I had the pleasure of meeting with you for the first time when I came out for a freelance “summit” about three years ago. I had always wanted to meet you and, while those first time meetings can sometimes be maddeningly awkward and not necessarily up to the lofty expectations built up in your mind, I was pleasantly surprised that you were as funny and interesting and genuine as I had imagined.
So, with that, I can only imagine that you are as determined, kick-ass and positive as you write in this post. I have no doubts you’ll pull an Uncle Charlie.
Mike, look at all the love, friendship and caring you’ve generated in people. And a lot of those people work in advertising. That’s no small feat.
Mike,
Your humanity has both inspired and humbled me for the past twenty years. Thank you for being you. Much love.
I never had the pleasure of working for you but I believe I would have enjoyed it. I’ve always associated you not with any particular ad but an interview in a now defunct publication about the “biz.” During the interview at a Richmond restaurant, you took note of an employee of TMA having dinner. You had the waiter bring you their bill. A little thing? Maybe. But it’s the kind of thing that brings out the best in the people. The kind of thing that great leaders do.
Dear Mike (aka The Great and Powerful Oz):
When I arrived at the Martin Agency as a young AE, I will never forgot my first meetings with you. To borrow a metaphor from the Wizard of Oz, I had in my head that you were the GREAT and POWERFUL Oz. Your stellar reputation, larger than life stature, and of course, your creative prowess marked with a zillion awards, had me awe-struck. As I went into my first meeting with you, I felt like one of the munchkins bashfully requesting an audience with you as my inner voice kept repeating in my head: “Do not arouse the wrath of the great and powerful Oz.”
Well, come to find out, much like Oz, you were just a REGULAR GUY. And I say that as one of the highest and most sincerest of compliments.
A regular (brilliant) guy who cared as passionately (if not more) about his people as he did the work. A regular (humble) guy who could have easily stolen the show from colleagues in presentations, but ensured instead that each team member had their moment to shine.
A regular (understanding) guy who was always approachable, always willing to stop and listen, always willing to show gratitude and appreciation, always willing to mentor.
A regular (sensitive) guy who believed in killing folks with kindness — quite rare in in industry know often for arrogance and take-no-prisoners attitudes.
A regular (credible) guy who made clients and leading companies abandon Madison Avenue and put their faith and trust in an agency in Richmond, Virginia –an agency with a unique understanding of how to connect, engage and endear brands to regular folks.
A regular (gentle, father-figure type) guy who showed compassion to a mortified Account Supervisor who threw up on him in the company plane on the way back from a pitch. You even offered to drive said AE home to ensure all was ok. We can laugh about this now, right? A regular (lovable) guy who has a cult following of folks like me who treasure the years they spent learning from you and growing under you and who would move mountains for you.
As Oz told the Scarecrow: “A heart is not judged by how much you love; but by how much you are loved by others.” Mike, you are loved by legions of folks around the world. You have a veritable LOVE train circling the globe of folks who are praying for you and your family. And you know what they say about the power of love: LOVE conquers all. So keep loving and keep fighting Mike! With much love, Andrea Amore
Ditto
Mike,
We met a few years back while judging the One Show in Hawaii. I remember sitting at a bar with you, Joe, and Cliff Sorah talking about going fishing on our only day off. I left thinking what a great culture Martin must have, with a very cool guy at the helm. I’ve been following your agency for some time and have nothing but admiration at what you all have created. I also have been following your own personal journey and can honestly say, your candid optimism and strength is nothing short of inspiring. I have always believed that obstacles and challenges are a fact of life, that if you take them head on, you’ll be better off for it. That if you believe in something strongly, and you focus all your energy and heart towards that one goal, anything is possible. Please know that I am sending you nothing but great energy for your recovery and that your journey continues to inspire me.
David Angelo
David&Goliath
Mike,
This past July we had to put down our labrador Preston, two and a half years after he was diagnosed with terminal liver disease. The vets originally gave him two weeks to live. Boy were they wrong. Over time, everyone began to refer to “Magic Preston” as he continually beat the odds with seemingly no explanation. I don’t want to belittle your situation by comparing it to my dog, but there’s something of a Labrador in your spirit and personality: always positive, enthusiastic and faithful, tail wagging as it were. Hoping the docs are just as wrong in your case. Because I’m sure everyone would enjoy referring to you as “Magic Mike.”
Mike, I don’t know you but I know of you. Personally, I am scared to death of death. You are an inspiration – in life and in your final days. thank you for being so open and sharing about it. Help god with his brand. People have so many different perceptions of her, she could use somebody to help sort it out.
Mike- Over the years, I’ve talked to a lot of people who know you. Invariably, they tell me about your genuineness, your kindness and your gift for mentoring. Although we’ve never met, I’m a long time fan of yours. Today, you’re in my prayers.
Mike,
Our few days we spent together were some of the most inspirational moments I have ever had. I always wished I had come to work for you. All my hopes.
Mike, we have never met but I have admired your work and your agency for many years, and have seen the fruits of your leadership in the many people you have lead and guided over the years. I am sorry to hear your news, but the spirit you show in the face of such a thing is truly inspiring, and certainly lives up to everything I’ve heard about you. As the son of two cancer casualties, my best wishes and hopes go out to you, your family and your friends. Godspeed to the newest Uncle Charlie, Ted
You are one of my heroes.
You can beat this and have many more Uncle Charlie days. Ive learned so much from you working in the Traffic and Budget Control Depts many years ago. You are a great leader and have accepted every challenge that has came your way. Lets beat this. Love and prayers for you
Peggy and Will
Dear Mike
You don’t know me but I want you to know you were a creative inspiration when I started in 1989 as a young writer.
I used to seek out your work in hard-to-find and expensive award annuals just to marvel at your work.
After 22 years in the business, mainly at Y&R Singapore, I left creative directorship to become a client.
I wish you well and will pray for you.
I just wanted you to know you were one of my creative heroes.
Good bless.
Mike – I am so saddened to hear this news. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
I hope that one bright spot in your day will be reading these comments that so eloquently state how wonderful you were as a creative director and even more so as a leader and friend. I had the pleasure to work with you closely on the Wrangler account and during that time was able to really see for the first time the power of the written word. You were able to embody the brand in a way that was so perfect – and what of course we all wanted to say but couldn’t.
Beyond your talents at work, you have always had time for other people – sharing information, supporting other’s work etc. I reached out to you years after I left the agency about traveling to Sundance and you replied within a few hours with all the information you had on restaurants and good tips. l hope you can truly appreciate the impact that you have had on so many. I hope you know its the small things, done in such a way that lifted people up, that has created such a meaningful impact on so many people.
Stay strong and our prayers are with you. Please keep us posted through your blog.
Pam Orsi
We’ve met and talked a few times over the years, Mr. Hughes. As much as I’ve been inspired by your work, your humanity has always inspired me even more. Thank you for these words. It’s just like you to give us all a gift at a moment like this. Uncle Charlie. Uncle Charlie. Uncle Charlie.
Mike,
I’ve already sent you my mushy email last week and I will treasure your personal response forever. But I thought you might get a chuckle out of the fact that I did not know about this blog, so when Joe Alexander referred to “Uncle Charlie” in an email, I thought he was referring to the character from the 60′s TV show “My three sons”
Bob Meagher
Mike, I learned the news a couple of days ago and am heartbroken. You have been a very important person in my life since we first met 10+ years ago. Over this time, I have learned a great deal about making amazing work… but much more importantly how to inspire and treat people… all people. Your spirit, kindness, humor and joy for living is what I take with me. I want to thank you for our friendship, partnership and always being there for me when I need some advice, an arm around the shoulder or a helping hand. Although I probably can’t ever pay you back, I fully intend to pay it forward. You will always inspire me to be better and do better. Derek
Dear Mike,
It is now after lunch and I have something nice to say to you. I thank you for all your inspirations that you afforded those who read your little book. I read it and took it to heart three years ago after being diagnosed with COPD I am not like you Mike I was a smoker.
My son Jean.Pierre Catala Bovie gifted me with your book and I was so inspired by your courage I stopped smoking. !!!! I have shared your little book with groups I have attended at Alta Bates Hospital. Your book has changed their lives. I have never met you but wrote you to thank you for your book and you responded, I cherish that missive and thank you.
As Derek Koenig wrote, “Although I probably can’t ever pay you back, I fully intend to pay it forward. You will always inspire me to be better and do better.” And tomorrow before lunch I will find something kind to say to someone and then after lunch I will do the same.
Thank you for that gift and on that note I thank you for all the kindness you have shared with the thousands of young men and woman that have had the privilege to have worked with you. One day we will meet Mike and I will make you tea and we will smile and know everything is going to be just fine!!!! My very best for a safe journey. Sincerely, Katie M. Bovie
No comment has made me happier than this one. Thank you, Katie. You made my day.
M.
Katie, I didn’t know that Mike wrote a book. Can you tell us its name as I couldn’t find it on the Internet. Thanks so much.
I send you an email on your site. One has to get the book at Martin Agency. Good luck. katie Bovie
Good Morning Mike it is again 3:00 am in Berkeley,California…my internal time clock is off and I can not sleep. I am happy though there is no noise! I live on a very busy street Ashby Avenue and feel part of the Indiana Freeway!!!! Jean.Pierre coming home next week we all can not wait to see him. He was here for Thanksgiving!! Such joy.
Mike I wish you were coming with Jean.Pierre so I could finally meet you. Oh I have so many friends I have met these past three years so inspired by your little red book that I would just love to introduce you to . One is Dr. Kristina Kury at Alta Bates Hospital. She is my Lung doctor. She loved your book. So Mike on that note call Jean.Pierre come with him to Berkeley. The kettle is on and my husband is a great French cook. Come. RSVP Bring Ginny also . Katie
Every morning I drink a huge glass of water to start my day and this I learned from you and I think of you when I do this. I’d like to just write this and leave the blog to see if you remember
. But being a chatty kind of detailed gal, ill continue. When I worked in Budget Control, we had Weight Watchers at Work and you were the most successful and lost weight very quickly while I rejoiced at losing a lb or 2 a week. You shared your secret w the group…start the day with a huge glass of water because as the day got busy its hard to get those required 8 glasses in!! Starts my day out doing something good for myself and I think of you.. (All the way down here in little Beaufort, SC!). Made lifelong friends at TMA and it was an honor working w such incredible talent 
mike – never underestimate the power of uncle charlie. you set the standard for humanity in advertising. sending good thoughts. steven dolbinski
Mike, who ever thought when we were kids in this business that we’d ever have enough dough to eat at great restaurants and fly up front? To paraphrase that great philosopher Joe Walsh, “life’s been good to us so far.”
I’m so glad I got to meet you. Even knowing you only slightly has been a master class in grace. Thank you very much, Mike.
Mike,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I remember riding on a bus with you in Costa Rica –judging some award show 13 years ago–and you said that your agency needed to learn how to do great commercials. “We have a lot to learn in that area” you said. Sure enough, a few years later, Martin was doing the best TV campaigns in America and was considered one of the top agencies in the world. I remember later having lunch and driving around Los Angeles with you and you were as humble as ever. You are an inspiration in every way. Thank you.
Much love,
Rob Siltanen
Mike, you are my hero.
You’re living proof that nice guys CAN finish first in this crazy, sometimes heartless business.
Thanks so much for sharing your beautiful thoughts with your countless friends and admirers.
Sending good thoughts,
Bob
Hi Mike,
It is Sunday afternoon l:47pm Jean.Pierre just called from Washington,DC He is doing fine and looks forward to being home next week with us . He is directing a shoot in San Francisco. He is taking me out for fried clams on a hot dog roll with tartar sauce!!!! It is a Cambridge, Massachusetts thing . I have to have one every ten years my last was one year ago on my 65th birthday!!! Ha Ha all the way into the city for a clam roll……it was heaven………..
So I am wishing you blue birds that know how to sing this afternoon. I am thinking and sending you lots of golden thoughts and moments. Remember new life deep breath. Okay. Until 3:00 am tomorrow you are in my prayers and positive thoughts. One step at a time okay………………God bless you. Katie M. Bovie
Of course tomorrow will be great Mike. Because all of us know you, the George Bailey of advertising. If no man is a failure who has friends, you will always be the richest man in any Bedford Falls. God love you man, I sure do.
Tomorrow certainly is going to be great because all of us know you Mike, the George Bailey of advertising. If no man is a failure who has friends, you will always be the richest man in any Bedford Falls. God love you man because I sure do.
Dennis
Dear Mike,
I just found out about your current health status and Genny’s new diagnosis. We’re
sending positive thoughts your way daily and including you all in the prayer chain. I’ll
be an avid reader of your blog, praying daily for good news as you follow Uncle Charlie’s
lead !
I’m so lucky I’ve had the opportunity to work under your leadership over the past decade
or so. You’re the epitomy of passion and what is GOOD in advertising. By example,
you’ve taught us how to make the most out of our work and life. You have such a
positive influence on the lives of all you meet, even a freelance project manager.
I wish you a miracle.
Bunny Moore
Dear Mike,
I just found out about your current health status and Genny’s new diagnosis. We’re
sending positive thoughts your way daily and including you all in the prayer chain. I’ll
be an avid reader of your blog, praying for good news as you follow Uncle Charlie’s
lead !
I’m so lucky I’ve had the opportunity to work under your leadership over the past decade
or so. You’re the epitomy of passion and what is GOOD in advertising. By example,
you’ve taught us how to make the most out of our work and life. You have such a
positive influence on the lives of all you meet, even a freelance project manager.
I wish you a miracle.
Bunny Moore
Mike,
You have given so many people the permission to dream. We’ve met several times, but never had the opportunity to work together… even so you have impacted my life over the years.
Sending hope and warm thoughts.
JB Hopkins
Other than shaking your hand at a couple of 4A’s function, I never had the pleasure of your company. But literally every single person I know in this business who knows you loves and respects you. That is a legacy. That is class. That is the sign of a life well lived. So, you don’t know me from Adam, but I admire the hell out of you, for what it’s worth. Via con Dios.
awaiting moderation?
Dear Mike,
I just found out about your current health status and Genny’s new diagnosis. We’re
sending positive thoughts your way daily and including you all in the prayer chain. I’ll
be an avid reader of your blog, praying for good news as you follow Uncle Charlie’s
lead !
I’m so lucky I’ve had the opportunity to work under your leadership over the past decade
or so. You’re the epitomy of passion and what is GOOD in advertising. By example,
you’ve taught us how to make the most out of our work and life. You have such a
positive influence on the lives of all you meet, even a freelance project manager.
I wish you a miracle.
Bunny Moore
Although our time working together was brief (TLC rebrand), it is the standard by which all else has and will be measured in terms of doing work that matters because its good, holding yourself to the highest standard because its important and being kind always because its right. And, you very much are responsible for all of that…and more. I count myself very fortunate to have stood in your shadow and been your friend if only for a little window of time. Thank you.
While our work together was brief (TLC rebrand), it is the standard by which all has and will be measured in terms of doing great work, standing up when it matters, being kind to all and being sure to laugh often. Your kindness, approachability and humility is what I remember most and the way I felt (good! smart!) to share a conference room or dinner table with you. Simply stated, thank you.
Good night Mike., and sweet dreams.
Mike,
Once again I find myself re-reading your words, this time in a blog.
Your life and work are worth studying and learning from. Thank you for being a teacher to me.
Good morning Mike, Maybe you be blessed with peace of mind and soul. I am sending you many positive thoughts.
Thinking of you and Ginny MIke. Love, Susie
All the Murphys are thinking about you and sending you 100+ hugs!
Mike,
As an Adcenter alum, I deeply appreciate the support you gave to the school, both directly & indirectly. It’s had a huge impact on my career, and I cherish the memory of accepting my diploma and shaking your hand on graduation day.
As a fellow W&L alum, I can empathize with the guilt you’re feeling for not making good on a pledge. That word was not taken lightly in Lexington (unless you’re talking about a fraternity pledge).
But you know what, man? I think you’re exempt from reading those books. At some point, you’re gonna bump into that professor again, and he’ll be proud of what you’ve accomplished in lieu of the hours spent perusing those novels. In fact, you can tell him I’m tracking down a Modern British novel circa 1970 and will be reading it for you. That is my pledge to you.
Sincerely,
Phil Flickinger
Adcenter ’02
W&L ’97
Hi Mike -
I feel cheated. I haven’t known you for very long, and since I have known you, I haven’t gotten to spend much time with you. I missed out on a lot…a lot of wisdom, a lot of inspiration, a lot of support, encouragement and kindness and a lot of good times that bring smiles to the faces of the many people who have known you longer and gotten to spend more time with you. My loss.
Despite this brief, shallow relationship we have shared, however, I have also gained a lot. I gained the opportunity to join the board at VCU and to experience your leadership first-hand; I gained new friends, new knowledge, and new opportunities to learn, teach and grow both as an individual and as part of an organization that provides important value and instills even more important values – many of which are a direct reflection of you.
During my first meeting at VCU, the drawing of “your” building was unveiled. I didn’t know you. I didn’t know what you had done to receive such an honor, but I knew from listening to your comments which were mostly about others that you were someone I wanted to know. So, instead of feeling cheated, I feel blessed that I can say “I know Mike.” I will forever say “I gained a lot from knowing him.”
Thank you, Mike, for all you have given to me and so many others.
With love,
Vicki
Good Morning Mike,
Last night I had most of Berkeley,California, Boston, Cambridge and New Hampshire praying and sending you love. I have this hunch I am going to see you.
Let us know Mike what you need.
With respect,
Katie
Hi, the sun is out the sky is blue and Jean.Pierre is coming home today. We are all so happy he will be home. It is his whole family’s birthday. He has a lot of singing to do.
At the table all us Bovie’s and Buecherts will join hands and think of you Mike. I know you will feel something happy.
May today be full of love and happiness for you.
Respect ,
Katie
jean has arrived, i am going to give him tce cream for breakfast, Have a great day Mike,
Mike;
Back in the carefree, laugh-a-minute days of Bank One, when every concept was approved, every estimate signed without question, and the client never meddled…wait. I’m hallucinating again. One thing does remain crystal clear to me when I recall those days, however, and that is that no matter the depth of anxiety I might have had about how to mollify a cranky client in Columbus who constantly rejected the agency’s creative recommendations, I knew I had one certain port of refuge and relief — your office. No matter the problem, you always were able to figure out a way to solve it and pull my feet from the fire. And you did so cheerfully, without reservation, and confidentially. You were never too busy to help.
Thank you for that Mike, and thank you for just being who you are — a genuinely good man.
Rob A.
Mike would you let us know how you are I hope you are watching some funny movies and holding your Jinny’s hand
Bon Nuit Mike. I hope you day was special. Jean.Pierre’s was. We held hands and spoke softly about you and what you have given to others. If I mail you my little red book world you sign it for me.
Pleasant dreams Mike.
Good morning! birds singing their hearts out. Hope you are reading the funny pages with a good cup of coffee. All goes well here in La La land of Berkeley. I am living a rich and varied life without a toilet for the last week!!!!!! My ceiling in bathroom came tumbling down on me while I was on the john. One million drops of water washed over me and my brand new shoes………………plaster, grit and grime came down from the heavens I was trapped in the water closet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!hahahahahah ha I survived to tell the story………….what a mess!!!!!!!!!!! driving my poor Jean.Pierre nuts……………ah he is use to it and look at he stories he has to tell about his mother…….
Good night Mike may all your thoughts be happy ones. Know we are thinking of you.
Katie
Good Morning the birds are back I swear they have a gig out my office window. I feed them each morning I guess that is why they are back. Jean.Pierre doing great getting him to shop for Valentine’s Day….he is in love you know. A very sweet young woman who will travel the world with him. Jean.Pierre brought a delightful soul who lived on Martha Vineyard growing up so we have a lot in common. Nice to hear the New England accent I do miss it. I use to call 411 when I first came to Berkeley 45 years ago just to hear the accent. At any rate it is wonderful to have them here. I have started to really investigate Stem Cell replacement therapy….it is in San Diego and I have been interviewed by Dr. Burke. I think I will go for it …. I do not have anything to lose. I do want to be around to see the Pierre get married so we shall see.l It is a brand new world out there and we only go around once so why not. I have signed up to walk a marathon!!! It will be my first. Life is good and I am very,very optimistic . I hope all is going well for you today know you are being thought of my all of us. Wishing you exactly what would thrill you the most today. Respectfully, Katie
Good Morning Mike, Today is Sunday. It is the day I love most. My husband Guy is at home. He is like you loves what he does and is great at being a Wooden Objects Conservator for the past 35 years………..yikes time does go so fast. When he started I sent out an invitation that read, Welcome to Emeryville, California’s first French male stripper. Alpha Furniture Restoration Studios, Inc. Jean.Pierre was three years old when his dad started the business of restoring antiques and unique objects. Guy has three degrees Engineering,Nursing, and Marie Biology!!!! and ta dah he is a Wooden Objects Conservator with a sense of humor. That is why I love him. He makes me laugh. Well Mike I am sure your Jenny has lots of stories of being married to you to share.
I am coming to Virginia in the Spring maybe we can have a glass of wine together. That would be beautiful.
May your day be full of sunshine,Jenny, and the Super Bowl. Regards, Katie
Bonjour Mike, I hope all is going well for you. Know you are being thought of. Is there anything you need?
It is evening Mike. And I read it is awful back there. Jean.Pierre still home. Don’t think he will be able to fly into Virginia……………….yeah for us Just thinking of you.
Mike, what a great and positive impact you have had on so many people, and on The Martin Agency and on so many clients and on America and the world — through many great campaigns, yes, but more so through being such a great human being. I feel fortunate to be one of the people you had an impact on. I echo Andrea Amore’s beautifully expressed thoughts about your warmth, kindness and being accessible. Thanks for your many kindnesses to me over 7 years at TMA, and during a tough exit period. It’s a tough business and your gentleness and humanity and love for people shine all the brighter against that backdrop. Peace.
Bonsoir Mike, hope you had a great day I did. I hired a new doctor. Ah what a lucky woman am I. He is right across from Alta Bates Hospital. He is 40 ish, good looking and a straight shooter , Jewish , grad of UC Berkely, from North Carolina, and best of all he has a sense of humor. The janitor showed me into his office I was out of air. Ha I impressed him !!!! A Retired Domestic Godess am I………ha I hate going to the doctors but this one well I might go a bit more…… I hope and think out loud that you are doing better and now that I know who Uncle Charlie is i think you really are his twin. Well, Bonsoir and pleasant dreams. One nice thing before lunch , and one nice thing after lunch.
Bonjour hope you have a healthy day.
Dearest Mike- I just found out about your newest journey- You are one amazing person – We are all blessed to know that someone like you exists and has the most remarkable and positve outlook on life as we know it. My thoughts are with you and Ginny. With love and big big hugs to a huggy bear. Sharon Spielman
Mike, I love the commercial Hut,Hut,Hut……..it is just so colorful, full of energy and brought a smile,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,Think I’ll order a pizza for dinner
Hi Mike,
Happy Valentine’ day. I hope you eat lots and lots of chocolate and throw the wrappers on the floor. It is the best feeling to bro so and laugh while you do it.
Bonsoir, Katie
Morning, it is going to be a glorious, happy day . Guy and i are going for a massage!!!!!!!!! Heaven. I am seeing the master, Obama look a like who has golden finger and a heart of gold Chris Randel, Oakland Acupunture. Mike when you come here we will take you to him. Hope you have a glorious day.
Respectfully,
Katie
Good Morning Mike,
It is 4:00 am here in La La land. I slept an extra hour thanks to Chris Randel!!!! Feel like a million right now. Chris gave me the best massage and then those suction cups yikes but fantastic gets the blood moving and one feels the blood moving!!!! Have a huge day lined up having our office painted today…… mon dieu so much stuff yikes.
I just know you are feeling great. I can feel it. Right? So on that note I am wishing you those blue birds that know how to sing….may your day be filled with laughter and love and a pizza.!!
With Respect,
Katie
Good Morning Mike,
I am preparing to celebrate 3 years ago next Sunday I am still alive. As you know I have COPD and can so relate to all you have gone through but look you made it . I am so happy I wish my arms could reach through the computer and hug you. It is Sunday my happy day Guy is at home. He is going sailing though and that is goo the Bay is beautiful and so is he.
Have a blessed day Mike.
Respectfully,
Katie
Hi Mike a gloriousday here in Berkeley. I hope you have had the same. Getting ready for the big Russian dinner party to celebrate an extended three years of living. It is going to be fun my Lung Doctor, Kristina Kury of Alta Bates hospital will be honored by all of us. How lucky I have been to have her as my doctor. She is unbelievable and do tolerant of me.
I am wishing you happy dreams.
Respectfully,
Katie
Happy Day Mike
Afternoon Mike, winding down on the cuckoo medicine Predisone. Wonder Woman about to deflate that is good. It is quite something to get only 3 hours of sleep a night. My poor Frenchman (men) Give me the roller skates and the swifter and I fly high at 3:15 I am on a high like no one could explain.. Slept till 6am today. New life deep breath! Life is indeed good.
I hope you are having a hot chocolate and cookies and laughing with a close friend or holding your Ginny’s hand.
Respectfully,
Katie
Hi Mike, Your name was whispered last night by 24 people at our Russian High Tea………………..did your name echo over there in Virginia……………
Sweet Dreams……..